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A clever girl & the two pebbles
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Saturday, May 8, 2010
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I would like to share a story with all of you, please read this story till the end because I think this story is quite interesting besides it can sharpen our way of thinking. There it goes..
This farmer had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to a village moneylender.
The Moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the farmer's beautiful daughter. So he proposed a bargain.
He said he would forgo the farmer's debt if he could marry his Daughter. Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the proposal.
So the cunning money-lender suggested that they let providence decide the matter.
He told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an empty money bag. Then the girl would have to pick one pebble from the bag.
1) If she picked the black pebble, she would become his wife and her father's debt would be forgiven.
2) If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven.
3) But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.
They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the farmer's field. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two Black pebbles and put them into the bag.
He then asked the girl to pick a pebble from the bag.
Now, imagine that you were standing in the field. What would you have done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you have told her?
Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:
1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.
2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the money-lender as a cheat.
3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.
Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking.
The girl's dilemma cannot be solved with traditional logical thinking. Think of the consequences if she chooses
the above logical answers.
So people,what would you recommend to the girl to do?
Well, here is what she did ....
The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path, where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.
"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked."
Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had Picked the white one. And since the money-lender dared not to admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an extremely advantageous one.
The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path, where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.
"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked."
Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had Picked the white one. And since the money-lender dared not to admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an extremely advantageous one.
MORAL OF THE STORY:
Most complex problems do have a solution. It is only that we don't attempt to think.
That's all from me and thanks for reading. Hopefully we can improve our way of thinking sooner or later, may Allah bless.
warkah untuk ayah
Posted by GEN 05
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Friday, January 1, 2010
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..Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..
semoga anda berjaya bace post ni sampai habis,
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seorang mahasiswa semesta akhir menulis surat kpd ayahnya,
Ayah, saya berasa tidak selesa krn terus menerus menulis surat kpd ayah utk meminta wang. Saya berasa malu dan sedih. Saya ingin meminta RM1000 drpd ayah, walaupun setiap anggota badan saya memberontak.
Yang Benar,
anak ayah
P/s:
Sebenarnya, saya berasa berat hati utk mengirimkan surat ini, jadi saya cuba utk mengejar posmen yg mengambil surat ini dari dlm peti surat. Malangnya saya tidak dpt menjejaki posmen tersebut. Saya ingin mengambil semula surat ini dan membakarnya krn surat ini pasti menyusahkan hati ayah. saya berdoa dlm hati agar saya dapat semula surat ini tapi sudah terlambat.
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beberapa hari kemudian, dia menerima balasan surat drpd ayahnya. dia berasa sgt gembira, tapi..
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ke hadapan anak ayah,
Nak, doamu sudah dimakbulkan. Suratmu tidak pernah ayah terima.
Yang Benar,
ayahmu
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morals of the story:
- cubalah utk menjadi sorang yg jujur walaupun sgt susah
- sayangi parents anda, jgn asek menyusahkan parents je
- spend duit biasiswa tu molek2
"Dan belanjakanlah (harta bendamu) di jalan Allah, dan janganlah kamu menjatuhkan dirimu sendiri ke dalam kebinasaan, dan berbuat baiklah, kerana sesungguhnya Allah menyukai orang-orang yang berbuat baik"
( Al Baqarah:195 )
lastly,
regards,
purple pencil
3 Cara bagaimana kita hendak berhadapan degan orang yang kita kurang suka~
Posted by GEN 05
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Friday, November 27, 2009
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Mesti Anda ada seseorang yang Anda kurang senang dengannya, kurang senang dengan sikapnya, dengan tutur katanya. Mungkin Anda sakit hati dengan perangai dia satu ketika dulu dan Anda susah nak maafkan hinggalah ke hari ini.Bagaimana untuk berdepan dengan orang yang tak suka apatah lagi Anda jumpa dia setiap hari bekerja? Ini caranya:
1. Pasang niat untuk jadi serasi dengannya.
Niatkan yang Anda mahu berjalan seiringan dengannya, berbual-bual santai dengannya seolah-olah tiada apa-apa berlaku satu ketika dulu di antara Anda dengan dirinya. Pasang niat Anda mahu OK bila bersama-sama dengan dia, biar terbit rasa gembira apabila berbual-bual dengannya. Hati Anda akan terasa lapang selepas itu.
2. Lupakan masa lalu, maafkan dia, doakan dia.
Sebelum berjumpa dengan, sebelum terserempak dengannya di tempat kerja, ambil keputusan untuk melupakan saja kesalahan dirinya pada Anda. Lupakan supaya emosi Anda menjadi ringan tak terbeban oleh hambatan memori pahit yang menyakitkan hati. Doakan kemurahan rezekinya dan kebahagiaannya - sebelum dan sesudah berjumpa dengannya.
3. LET GO.
zaidemrullah
Assalamu`alaikum~
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